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Communication in Marriage

August 04, 2025
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Bert Harper takes us on a journey through the intricacies of communication within marriage and family in this episode of By Design. He emphasizes that God's design for relationships is rooted in understanding and connection. Communication can often be challenging, especially given the inherent differences in how men and women express themselves.

Bert introduces a compelling triangle model that outlines the five levels of communication: cliches, facts, opinions, feelings, and transparency. This framework serves as a guide for listeners to navigate their conversations more effectively. He illustrates that while cliches and facts might suffice in casual interactions, deeper relationships require the sharing of feelings and, ultimately, transparency.

One of the key takeaways is the importance of listening. Bert highlights that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason, suggesting that we should listen twice as much as we speak. He discusses the various levels of listening, from ignoring to empathetic listening, and how these levels can significantly impact our relationships.

You will be encouraged to embrace transparency with your spouse, as this is the only relationship where complete openness is appropriate. Sharing feelings and thoughts is essential not just for personal connection but also for teaching children how to communicate effectively.

Communication is a two-way street, requiring both speaking and listening. By applying the principles discussed, you can foster stronger family bonds and create an environment where everyone feels heard and valued.

If you're looking to enhance your communication skills and deepen your relationships, this episode is a must-listen.

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